Leading by Example

Back in February when I attended Tip-A-King, there was one very noticeable absence - our team Captain Dustin Brown. Announcements were made at the event that he was at the hospital with his wife Nicole, who was getting ready to give birth to their second child. I remember thinking the timing seemed a little odd, because I thought Nicole was due in May, which I confirmed with several other people at the event.

Turns out little Mason Brown was born shortly after that, and just a little too early. He spent several weeks in the NICU before Dustin and Nicole got to bring him home. It's a terrible thing for any parent to go through, but even harder when your team is trying to make a play-off run for the first time in way too many years, and you're the guy charged with leading them. A lot of idiots on the hockey blogs criticized his absence for a couple of games before they knew the reason and questioned his leadership. I never doubted him for a minute.

Today proved what a great leader Dustin is. Tip-a-King announcements included instructions to save our ticket stubs, and that a make-up signing with him would be planned. I fully expected it would be after a game during the regular season, but the season came and went and no news. But our captain is a trooper, and he made good on his promise. I got to visit with him this weekend at the Sports Chalet in Marina Del Rey.



The poor guy literally got back less than a week ago from playing for the US World team in Switzerland, and here he is at a sporting goods store at 9:30 in the morning, smiling and being nice to everyone. Because that's the kind of guy Dustin is. And I'm glad he's our captain.

I ran into Shawna Rousseau, one of my hockey buddies from Facebook. She was looking sharp in her Brown West All-Star jersey, and I had a nice chat with she and her husband while they waited in line.



OK, I really miss my Kings now! Is it time for training camp yet?

Jewel @ The Roxy

Tammy scored big when she found a notice on-line about a free show Jewel was doing at the Roxy in Hollywood to celebrate the release of her new album, Lullaby. So after fun and sun at Disney and a quick run home for a shower, I joined Tammy, who already got a spot in line. What great friends do I have?!



I bought Jewel's first album, "Pieces of You," at the same time most of the world was discovering the little girl from Alaska with the guitar, the unique voice, and a talent for yodeling. I love the album, but she never became one of those "must-have" artists for me, and although I enjoyed the singles from other albums she recorded, I never bought another one. After seeing her live, I have some record collecting to do.



You see, Jewel is one of those artists where the recording process shortchanges you as a listener in way. It only gives you one interpretation of a song, a limited little window to view the sunlight. Her live performances are more akin to holding a crystal up the to the sunlight and watching millions of colored points of light dance through the facets and onto the ceiling. Her strength is in the subtle nuance in the bend of each note, the dynamic highs and lows, and the syncopated delivery of each poetic line.

The fact that she's an incredible storyteller is where it all starts. For over 2 hours, Jewel told the stories behind the songs, and recalled her journey to a life she never expected and clearly appreciates because of how hard it was to get there. She's an old soul who survived living in her car, broke, sometimes shoplifting so she could eat, all the while playing in coffee shops, clubs, and even on the street trying to realize her dream. Her stories are beautiful, heartbreaking and uplifting in equal measure, and the fact that she's so open in sharing them makes her heroic.



Time to go record shopping.

The Happiest Birthday on Earth

Today was my girlfriend Estacia Arriaga-Mehta's birthday. She is a huge Disney fan, and her lovely and very thoughtful husband Nick got her an annual pass for her birthday. Since we hardly got to talk at the wedding the day before (she was Molly's wedding coordinator and therefore busy almost the entire time), I drove down to Anaheim to spend the morning and early afternoon helping her celebrate at Disneyland.



When you're at Disney on your birthday, you can go to the guest services office and get a Happy Birthday button. Then every employee in the park sees you coming and wishes you a Happy Birthday. That much attention definitely makes you feel special, and who doesn't want to feel special on their birthday? Especially when you're spending it at the happiest place on Earth!



The guest services line was crazy since, on top of being Stacia's birthday, it was Mothers Day. So Eric, Nick and I killed a little time on some smaller rides while Stacia got her birthday button. But first, the boys had to steal my camera for a little self-portrait!



Our first ride was the Mad Hatter's Tea Party, of Alice in Wonderland fame. I have always loved rides that spin, probably because they remind me of many days spinning on piano stools instead of practicing my lessons. And that fun lightheaded feeling when you try to get off the ride is always cool. Although I would not recommend shooting video while you're riding (which I did this time and learned the hard way...).



Stacia finally joined us just in time for the Storybook Land boat ride. Nothing like being swallowed by a whale on your birthday!



Thank goodness Sheriff Eric was there to rescue us!



Then it was on to bigger rides, including the Matterhorn bobsleds...



... and my all-time favorite, Space Mountain!



Space Mountain was especially fun. They've renovated it since my last visit to Disney, so it was darker and faster than I remember, and completely fun! My knees were weak by the time it was over. And of course, they now have the hidden camera that takes your picture right before the end of the ride so you can buy a photo of yourself looking like a scared-to-death little baby. Did I buy it? You betcha! And I even got Stacia a copy as a birthday gift!

The gang spent the rest of the day at the park, while I left around 3:30 pm to head off to my next adventure. More about that tomorrow...I'm exhausted from all this excitement!

Happy Birthday Stacia!

International Relations

Big congratulations to my roommate Molly Lee, who got married this weekend here in Los Angeles. She and her new husband Magnes are proof positive that love can build bridges, even between two very different cultures! Molly is Chinese (specifically from Burma) and Magnes is Swedish, so this wedding was like a meeting of the United Nations.

It was a perfect day for an outdoor wedding, aside from being a little hot right before the ceremony started. But there was a light breeze going and we managed to get seats on the shady side of the lawn, and having some nice scenery helped.



I always love an officiant with a good sense of humor, and this guy was amazing. The Swedish accent always helps. Plus he was cute and I was crushing on him....just a little. And complimenting the bride on how pretty she is...always a good move.





The bridal party was all Asian on Molly's side, and completely Swedish on Magnes' side. Regardless of nationality everyone cleaned up well and look fabulous. I especially LOVED the color of the bridesmaid dresses!



Here's a little close-up on Annie and Jasmine. Looking great, girls!



The reception featured the traditional 10-course Chinese wedding menu, served family style. Each course has a meaning, so here's a link to a little guide if you want to read up on it.

http://everything2.com/title/Traditional%2520foods%2520for%2520Chinese%2520holidays%2520and%2520celebrations

And was so happy I got to sit next to my good pal Allison Hershberg!



Another tradition at Chinese weddings is the Dragon Dance, which is performed for the happy couple as a sign of good luck.



And I can't attend a major event without taking a self portrait. This time, I invited my good friend Estacia to join me. We didn't plan on having our friend Harout crash the party, but at least he refrained from putting rabbit ears on us!



Congrats Molly and Magnes! You got a great start to a great life.

When the Stars Align

I've always believed that a certain element of fate, destiny, and dare I say serendipity, has contributed to the occurrence of quite a few major events in my life. It probably sounds flaky, but I really do believe the universe gives us a little nudge in the right direction when we need it. So it was entertaining to read my horoscope for today in light of the big decision I made this afternoon.

"You trust your instincts and hunches, but sometimes you hesitate, waiting for confirmation. This is not that time to do that -- go ahead and jump when your gut says the time is right."


So today I listened to my gut, jumped, and found my next residence! As of June 6, I will be the proud occupant of a 588 square foot studio apartment in downtown Los Angeles. As George Jefferson would say, "I'm moving on up!"

Here's a link to the website for my new digs.

http://bunkerhillapts.com/

You can peruse all the amenities at your leisure, but there are a number of bonuses for me that aren't listed.

1. This place is a little more than a mile from Staples Center - PERFECT for hockey season! One of my first projects (after I get moved) is to get my track shoes out and see if it's as walkable as I'm thinking. If so, I can't even tell you how much I'll save on parking this season.
   
2. There are TWO Starbucks within 3 blocks, because we know I can't function without caffeine. Now I just need to figure out which one has my reduced fat turkey bacon breakfast sandwich and proceed to train a new bunch of baristas.
   
3. It's actually 2 miles closer to my office than my current drive, and OPPOSITE traffic!! Yay for a better commute to work! I think I can also take the Metro since they've run a new line into Pasadena just a few blocks from my office, so that's a another project to test out.
4. I have covered parking! And an assigned space! This has been a HUGE issue since the owners of the house behind us rented their place to 4 college students that have 5-6 cars parked in our drive at any given time. Plus the garage has a security guard, so my EOS will be safe and secure when I have to leave her alone.
   
5. I have my own bathroom again!! That pretty much says it all...

I was so excited about how much I liked the place that I completely forgot to take any photos (bad Meg!), so unfortunately that has to wait until I get moved. But I promise there will be many blogs worth of material on my moving adventure!

I guess it's time to start packing....

Remembering

I've been thinking about my Dad a lot lately. It started when a close friend from college lost a family member recently. I sent her one of my homemade greeting cards, with a quote I found once that said, "When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure."

Then a co-worker friend of mine made this post on Facebook this morning.



My dad was in a German prison camp when the war ended, and today is the anniversary of the day he would have been released after 18 months of captivity. And so I got to remember just how brave and noble a man he was, and how proud I am to be his daughter.

It also made me realize the people we love most in life never really leave us. And if we're paying attention, they pop up just when we need them. I hope my friend remembers that.

Thanks Daddy...

Confessions of a Tech Addict

I am one of the least technologically savvy people on the planet. When VCR's came out, I could never figure out how to record anything from the TV. I'd beg a favor from the closest guy I could find - my brother, a boyfriend, or some male co-worker or friend - to help me. Guys always know how to work things where remote controls and little buttons are involved. It's the main reason women need them, besides taking out the trash.

So I found myself thinking about technology the other day, as I was purchasing my latest and greatest "I-can't-live-without-it" tech gadget (an iPhone). How exactly did I go from failing to program the VCR to actually seeking out stuff with buttons, keyboards and widgets and then figuring out how to use them?

Necessity is the mother of invention. When I started getting into hockey, I found sites with all kinds of hilarious videos (a feature about the aftermath of Sully getting his teeth knocked out, for instance) and they took forever to watch on my work laptop because of the buffering speed. All the justification I needed! Of course, I also wanted to get on other sites that were blocked for me at work, but more hockey was enough motivation. So with the help of Nadine's computer wiz hubby John, I purchased a Mac Book.

The people at Apple deserve a lot of credit for their design genius. You really do just plug it in and everything is pretty intuitive to use. After playing around with my new toy for an hour or so, I knew I hit the jackpot. Of course, my computer came loaded with iTunes, so...

That led to the iPod Touch. The justification was easy this time...I had a 3 week trip to Europe planned, which would involve a lot of time trapped in planes, bored and needing entertainment. Why not just carry my music collection with me? All the really cool people in airports have them, so why not me? Plus the iPod Touch came with games, an international clock so I could set the time in each city we visited....I could go on and on.

Now that I had the Internet, free from workplace restrictions, the social networking began. Facebook, Twitter, YouTube and my very own blog! Communication with my friends, exploring new things that would make me a more versatile trainer....and MORE HOCKEY. Hockey videos, hockey blogs, hockey players and friends on Facebook! In short, my computer became the gateway to hockey heaven. When I discovered my work computer didn't do streaming radio, I started carrying both laptops on trips when the Kings were away so I could listen to broadcasts on the radio.

And because of the iPhone, I could check Stanley Cup playoff scores while sitting at the Dodgers game last night! Does life get any better?

Just to set the record straight, all this technology IS about more than hockey. It really started a couple of years ago hearing Mark Wagner, the head of Progressive's Claims University, talking about the future of training, introducing ideas that made me see myself becoming a dinosaur sooner than I was ready. I got scared of being obsolete, and decided it was time to ride the tech wave or get wiped out. So I jumped in with both feet, and I'm still glad I did. Even on days when hockey isn't involved.

As I was working on this blog, the house started shaking. Now in our neighborhood, this could be anything....a big truck going down the street fast enough will shake things around here. But the window was open, and I didn't hear a truck. So I sent a Tweet, updated by Facebook status, and hopped on the US Geological Survey website. Within a couple of minutes, I had confirmed I felt the remnants of 4.4 quake centered near Malibu. Eight of my friends felt it too!

http://quake.usgs.gov/recenteqs/FaultMaps/119-34.htm



So thanks to technology, at least I know I'm NOT crazy! Just addicted.